
Hits home in a number of spots with me. The book looks at why fights happen, and it's often not what we think. Cole treats it with some clarity and a little humor, laced with practical advice, such as 5 minute cooling off rule. The structured steps for resolving conflict are easily applied, helping people to connect (which is what they really want in the first place.). Ir dismantles some myths, like 'healthy couples don't fight' and offers practical tools for breaking those repetitive cycles most of us know so well. If you want to understand your fights and make your relationship stronger, you'll get something out of this book.