The Other 99 T.Y.M.E.S: Train Your Mind to Enjoy Serenity

A book that reminds you to widen the lens — and stop giving so much power to pain Carlos Wallace isn’t here to coddle you. He’s here to tell the truth as he’s lived it—and that truth hits hard. The Other 99 T.Y.M.E.S. is a collection of lessons told through lived experience, each one pointing back to a central theme: we spend too much time fixating on the one thing that went wrong and not nearly enough time honoring the 99 things that went right. It’s not a workbook. There are no bullet points or checklists. The training Wallace offers is subtle but powerful: he tells you a story—sometimes funny, sometimes raw, sometimes heartbreaking—and lets the reframe emerge naturally. What would happen if you looked at your own life that way? What if you stopped dragging your pain into every room and started carrying your growth instead? There’s a grit to this book I really appreciated. Wallace draws from his time in the Navy, his experience as an entertainment promoter, his roots in East Texas, and his journey through betrayal, family loss, and racial injustice. But he never lets bitterness take the wheel. His message is clear: perspective is a discipline. Gratitude is not passive—it’s trained. You won’t find spiritual bypassing or toxic positivity in these pages. Just hard-won wisdom and the reminder that serenity is something you build. If you’re looking for a tactical guide, this might not be your book. But if you want to sit down with someone who’s seen some things, felt them deeply, and still chooses to rise with gratitude—you’ll find good company here.

This self-help book is about the author's journey in life which is relatable and reflective. The author gained a sense of gratitude through his struggles and challenges in life. Appreciating life small wins and cultivating positivity. Not focusing on insignificant circumstances and not racking the brain on them. I like the unique title for each chapter and meaning it conveyed.

"The Other 99 T.Y.M.E.S" by Carlos Wallace isn't just another self-help book. It's a gentle nudge towards a profound shift in perspective. Wallace, building upon the wisdom of his previous work, "Life Is Not Complicated, You Are," encourages us to break free from the tyranny of negativity. Instead of dwelling on the one time things went wrong, he challenges us to focus on the 99 times they went right. It's a simple yet powerful concept. By cultivating gratitude and appreciating the countless blessings in our lives, we can cultivate a more positive and fulfilling existence. Wallace doesn't preach or offer easy fixes. Instead, he guides you through a thoughtful exploration of your own mind, encouraging self-reflection and a deeper understanding of your inner world. I found myself nodding along with many of his insights, particularly his emphasis on the importance of recognizing and appreciating the small victories. "The Other 99 T.Y.M.E.S" is a reminder to savor the good moments, to cherish the connections we have with others, and to find joy in the everyday. If you're looking for a book that can help you cultivate a more positive outlook on life, I highly recommend giving this one a read.

A powerful and inspiring guide to finding peace and clarity in everyday life. The author provides practical tools to shift your mindset and embrace serenity. Highly recommended for personal growth!

The Other 99 T.Y.M.E.S is a heartfelt reminder to focus on life's blessings rather than its setbacks. Carlos Wallace masterfully combines wisdom, practical advice, and inspiring stories to encourage gratitude and resilience. A powerful read for cultivating inner peace!

This book really helped me shift my focus from daily stress to moments of calm and contentment. The exercises are simple yet powerful, and I found myself feeling more grounded with each one. It’s a great reminder that peace of mind doesn’t always require big changes—just small, thoughtful adjustments. If you’re looking for practical ways to bring more serenity into your life, I’d definitely recommend this book.

The Other 99 T.Y.M.E.S is a powerful reminder to focus on gratitude and the positive moments in life. Carlos Wallace skillfully helps readers shift their mindset away from the one-off negative experiences and toward the many overlooked blessings. The writing is motivational and practical, with valuable insights that make it easy to integrate gratitude into everyday life. I felt a renewed sense of appreciation for the small, positive moments after reading this, and it truly made me feel more at peace.

This book started well. The author used a plane crash story to portray an important concept. Then there was the idea of screenshot which I loved. The book moved on in a similar fashion. The author used stories to make points. Some of this was good, but at time the author seemed to be tangential. There was a little bit of religion, but it's not a religious book. You don't have to be religious to read it or benefit. The section on hip hop could probably be thrown out. It's a good hip hop discussion, but didn't seem to fit with the rest of the book. Overall, it's an okay read that might inspire you.

I wasn't sure when I picked up this book but it turned out to be a powerful addition to my mindfulness toolkit. It has a unique way of simplifying complex mental health and self-care concepts into manageable, bite-sized lessons that are both relatable and actionable. The layout is accessible too - easy to read without feeling overwhelming.

In The Other 99 T.Y.M.E.S, Carlos Wallace inspires readers to prioritize positivity, self-care, and supportive relationships. He emphasizes the importance of focusing on life’s favorable outcomes rather than fixating on fears or past missteps. Wallace discusses the weight of insecurity, the need for self-assurance, and the benefits of surrounding oneself with those who genuinely care. With insights on team-building, resilience, and meaningful partnerships, Wallace offers a heartfelt reminder to confront vulnerabilities with courage. This book is a call to cherish life’s supportive figures—our “Other 99 T.Y.M.E.S”—who lift us through challenges.

Carlos Wallace’s The Other 99 T.Y.M.E.S is an inspiring guide that challenges readers to flip their perspectives—focusing on the good in life rather than being consumed by the bad. With a mix of personal stories and insightful reflections, Wallace shares simple but effective ways to train your mind for positivity, resilience, and gratitude. His style is warm and relatable, which makes it feel like advice from a friend rather than a lecture. If you’re looking for a book that helps you shake off life’s setbacks and find more joy in the everyday, this one’s a solid choice.

A must read for developing mindfulness and thankfulness. Wallace urges readers to concentrate on the 99 times that things go right, citing the premise that we frequently dwell on the negative. He emphasizes the value of positive thinking, everyday thankfulness, and personal development through useful insights and inspirational advice. This book gives readers the skills they need to face life's obstacles with fortitude, mindfulness, and gratitude while serving as a reminder that inner serenity results from an intentional perspective. A very uplifting book for everyone looking for peace, to be read, then re-read when life inevitably challenges.